Pornstar Lyra Law: “My #1 Secret to Giving Her a Face-Melting Orgasm…”

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Pornstar Lyra Law: “My #1 Secret to Giving Her a Face-Melting Orgasm…”

Discover The Best Oral Techniques to Give Her a MEGA-Powerful Orgasm–Straight From the Mouth of A Professional Pornstar

Being in bed with a new woman can be really exciting — you're eager to see each other naked…

Ready to touch her entire body…

And make her feel things she's never experienced…

But there's one thing most guys just don't talk about: Oral.

I'm Lyra Law — pornstar and ex-dominatrix, and I'm here to show you the mind-blowing technique that gave me one of the best orgasms I've ever had. (And if you've ever seen my work, you know I've had quite a few.)

A lot of women are afraid to give direction when you're “down there,” so it can be pretty difficult to know what to do…especially if you're with a new woman.

However, there's no denying that oral IS important–according to the 2010 National Survey of Sexual Health & Behavior, women are much more likely to orgasm when a variety of sex acts are involved (like oral sex).


That's where I come in — using this technique, you can give her the most powerful orgasm she's ever experienced.

But before I show you what that is…

Let's talk about what it is you're trying to accomplish:

What Women REALLY Want You to Do Down There…

For many women, oral sex is just as, if not more, important than actual penetration.

In fact, many women need oral just to achieve orgasm when they're in bed with a new man.

That puts a lot of pressure on you…and it's easy to let that get to your head.

So before you head down South, it's important to get into the right “mindset” — to have the right idea before you dive in head first.

While the technique I'm about to show you can be used on any woman…there's one huge thing to remember: Every woman is different.

Some women want a hard, fast orgasm when you're down there…but other women want to be teased and caressed.

And to make it more confusing, some women don't even want to have an orgasm when you're down there!

If you don't know what you're doing, it can get really messy. Fast.

So before you get started, there are 3 things that need to happen first:

1) Take it Out To Lunch, Buy It A Drink

What's the first thing you do when you venture into uncharted territory?

Become familiar with your surroundings.

And just like you'd explore a new environment on an adventure, it's important to explore her bits and pieces when you're down there.

Because if you know where you are…it's so much easier to give her exactly what she wants — pleasure.

So what's the best way to do that?

It's simple: Watch her masturbate!


When you watch a woman masturbate, you can observe her pleasure as an “outsider” — there's no guessing. No wondering. No moving around, thinking maybe she likes it…

You know right away what she wants and exactly how she wants it.

And because you're watching her doing it, you can easily replicate it later on. It's like a deluxe, customized oral experience.

So that's what I mean when I say “Take it out to lunch, buy it a drink” — really get to know her down there.

Now, not all women are as sexually “free” as I am, so it might not be easy to just say, “Hey, can I watch you touch yourself?”

Instead, present it as a sexy, fun thing the two of you can try:

“Hey, I saw this once…maybe we can try it?”

Or you could ask her if she wants to watch you first…and then she goes.

You could also just straight up tell her why you're doing it…but in my opinion, that ruins the fun a little bit. ????

Watching her masturbate will give you a clear, specific road map to her erogenous zones.

And there's another, more powerful benefit on top of that…

2) Build Up the Tension

Watching her masturbate will also naturally build sexual tension between the two of you.

Why does that matter?

Before you actually go down there, it's important to make her want you to go down there…so she's nearly pushing your face between her legs…

And a slow-burning buildup is exactly the way to do that.

So instead of just jumping head-first between her thighs, start slow:


Kiss her neck. Run your fingers through her hair.

Slowly move your way down her body…so she can feel where you're going before you're actually there. That's when she'll start wanting it.

And when you can feel her desire (she'll probably try and push you down or say “I want you so bad”), there's one more thing to do before you get things going…

3) Tease Her Just Enough

Remember why you're in bed with this woman: You're having fun with her! Sex is exhilarating. It's exciting. You should be having a good time.

So right before you're about to start giving her the best oral of her life…stop. Tease her — but just a little bit.


Run your fingers up and down her inner thighs…

Kiss her from her belly button downward…

But whatever you do, don't touch her there. Yet.

This will also help build the tension. You might notice she starts breathing harder or gets visibly more excited. At this point, she's ready…

But don't give in!

Don't get me wrong — I love when a guy is super into going down on me, and I want to know you're enjoying it. But I also want to have that back and forth with you before it happens.

And teasing is the way to do that.

The key with teasing is not take it overboard — at a certain point, women get what I like to call “frazzle lips.” It's the equivalent of “blue balls”…and it really hurts. So don't spend half an hour kissing her thighs without touching her at all.

But when she's practically panting…begging you to take her…

That's when you break it out — my “Human Hitachi Technique.”

The Best Oral I've Ever Received…

You might be wondering what the hell a “Hitachi” is…

So if you don't know, a Hitachi is one of those magic wand-like massagers many girls use as vibrators. And they're phenomenal (if I do say so myself).

And the best oral sex I've ever received…well, he was basically a human Hitachi.

Here's what he did, step-by-step — this technique is easy to replicate and will give her pleasure I can almost guarantee she's never experienced:

Step 1: Suck on her clitoris (you know, that pea-shaped cartilage at the top of her vagina). Keep it in your mouth.

Step 2: Use your tongue like a video game controller. Go up…


To the right…

To the left…

And up again.


Step 3: Repeat. Repeat. Oh my god…repeat.

Do it as fast as you can and as many times as you possibly can.

The stronger your tongue, the easier it will be. You can take her over the edge with the “Human Hitachi”…but I actually prefer to have an orgasm while you're inside me.

And here's my favorite way for you to make that happen:

How To Give Her the “G Spot Tsunami” of Pleasure…

I love me some “Human Hitachi” — don’t get me wrong…but some of the most powerful orgasms I’ve ever received came from

When a guy hits my G Spot with this simple, easy-to-repeat technique…

…it’s like a damn missile hitting its target…I’m amazed how pressure in just the right spot can instantly trigger wave after wave of ecstasy to wash over my body…

And these orgasmic waves are so powerful that I call them the “G Spot Tsunami” (kinda corny, but hey, it works!)…

So when I'm in that “tsunami,” my mind goes blank…my toes instinctively curl…beads of sweat drip down my arching back…

And that final explosion of pleasure…well, let’s just say it’s very X-rated (I’ll let you use your imagination). ????

I made the last guy who used it on me call out of work the next day so I could keep him in bed…doing naughty, unspeakable things to him…

That’s how crazy well this “G Spot Tsunami” works. So check it out — you’ll love it (and so will she):

How to Give Her the “G Spot Tsunami” of Pleasure She'll Never Forget…

[Note: This post was updated by Gotham Club on July 27, 2019.]


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Why do guys never want a relationship with me?

Been through a string of “almost” relationships? It often goes something like this; you meet a cute guy, he seems interested, you enjoy spending time together and hooking up. Then all of a sudden he starts pulling away, blowing hot and cold and then eventually... The post Why do guys never want a relationship with me? appeared first on Dating and Other Stories.

Why do guys never want a relationship with me?

Been through a string of “almost” relationships? It often goes something like this; you meet a cute guy, he seems interested, you enjoy spending time together and hooking up. Then all of a sudden he starts pulling away, blowing hot and cold and then eventually when he’s confronted about it he says something like, “I’m not looking for anything serious right now”.

You’re left thinking, “What happened? Why do guys never want a relationship with me?”

There are multiple reasons why guys might not want a relationship with you, which we’ll go into detail here:

You’re just not their “match”, personality wise

Dating is a numbers game and sometimes it’s just pure luck when someone meets the right person. Unfortunately, you may have met a string of guys that you weren’t really compatible with personality wise.

He may think you’re a great woman, just not a fit for him. While men are very visual (sometimes much more so than women), when it comes to finding a long term mate they’re often very good at being rational. Men know they’re looking for someone that they feel they’d be compatible with in the long run.

As women we often completely fall head over heels for a guy based on looks or the “potential” of what a guy could be. The moment we’ve slept with them, all these hormones are released that make us attached to the guy, even if his personality or circumstances might be less than desirable. Women tend to be much more likely to overlook certain aspects of a man’s character because they get attached and focused on the idea of having a relationship.

They don’t find you physically attractive enough

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so what one man finds attractive might not be the same for another. Still, men tend to be very visual and love with they eyes. They often have specific physical traits they’re looking for in a long term partner but they’ll happily sleep with a variety of different women for the experience. For instance, they may have a preference for petite brunettes and always envisioned marrying a brunette, but they’ll sleep with a tall blonde if she’s available and attractive enough.

So it might not be that you’re not attractive, just that you’re not really their usual type.

On the other hand, it could be that you’re going for guys that are a bit out of your league. Where I live in New York there are more single women than there are men. So if a guy happens to be successful AND really good looking, you can bet that he has lots of attractive women interested. He may be chasing after the most attractive one, while keeping the others around for sex or someone to hang out with in the meantime.

Generally speaking, if a guy is a 9 in the looks department, he’s probably going to be looking for a 9 or a 10 in a woman. If the woman is a 9 or 10 and she happens to be high maintenance or have some annoying personality traits, she might fall to a 7 or 8 but he’ll put up with a lot more from her because she’s really, really hot.

I know this because one of my good looking male friends, let’s call him Tim, was dating a very attractive girl who broke up with him. He became desperate to win her back. When I asked him what he liked about her he couldn’t actually think of many nice things to say about her personality but he said she was just “so attractive” and hence why he wanted her more than any of the girlfriends he ever dated.

If you’re a 7 and you happen to have some not-so-great personality traits, then you fall even lower to 5 or a 6. At this point, they end it with you because there’s just not enough there for the guy to want a relationship with you.

You’re choosing the wrong guys

Some guys just don’t want a relationship with anyone. Unfortunately a lot of the time these guys know that they don’t want a relationship from the get go, yet they don’t tell you that fact. They pursue you, act interested, even take you out to dinner, but they’re just doing it to get sex and then the moment they realize you want a relationship, they act distant and bounce.

Why do they do this? Because if they told you they only wanted sex up front, the girl probably wouldn’t agree to it and he wouldn’t get any sex.

Not all guys are like this. I have one male friend who tells women up front that he doesn’t want a relationship. Unfortunately, they often continue seeing him in the hopes that he wants a relationship.

If he says he doesn’t want one, believe him.

Take some time to assess the type of guys you’re choosing. Do you find yourself dating guys that are too young? Perhaps they’re not financially secure or they aren’t where they’d like to be in their career? Perhaps they’re the type of guys that are surrounded by single friends and they don’t know anyone that’s married or in a committed relationship? Or maybe you always choose guys who like to party?

If you can see a pattern, try to choose guys who might be ready for a relationship. Look at their family values and the people they hang around with. Look at whether they’ve shown signs of commitment in the past. Do they have a dog? Do they own a house or are they saving for one? Try to look for signs of stability.

You’re not asking the right questions

Don’t be afraid to ask questions when you go on dates. It doesn’t have to be an interrogation but you can ask the guy what they’re looking for. If they say they’re looking for a relationship or they’d be open to a relationship if they met the right person then you’re on the right track. However, if they say they’re not looking for anything serious or they just want some “fun” then you don’t need to waste any more time on them.

All too often women are afraid to ask questions for fear of seeming too nosy or desperate to have a relationship. They make assumptions that the guy must be looking for a relationship if he chased them or asked them on a date.

The truth is, you can never really make assumptions about someone else’s feelings. Just because he seems flirty and into you doesn’t mean that he wants anything more than just sex.

It’s ok to ask subtle questions at the beginning of getting to know someone. That way you can easily weed out the time wasters and find someone who’s looking for the same thing as you.

You’re having sex too readily

So the old saying goes, why would he buy the cow if he can get the milk for free? If you’re sleeping with a guy and he gets all the benefits of sex without having to commit, then he may just continue on the same way. If you’ve been hooking up for a while and you feel that you need to have the “relationship talk”, don’t shy away from it for too long. If you get the sense that he’s only looking for a hookup or you’re just unsure of where it’s headed, tell him how you feel.

Try to have this conversation in person if you can. If he says he doesn’t want a relationship, that’s your cue to leave. Don’t keep giving him the benefits if he’s not willing to make you his girlfriend. Sometimes a guy needs to lose you to realize what he’s prepared to do to keep you.

You need to work on yourself

Do you find that when you get a boyfriend, you immediately change? Do you become overly attached and start to make them the center of your universe? Do you neglect your friendships and hobbies? If so it might be a good idea to examine your attachment style and try to work on you balance when it comes to friendships and relationships. Working with a good psychologist can help you work through any attachment issues you may have.

It could be that you have an anxious attachment style and not a secure one. If you find yourself constantly looking for signs that the guy you’re dating is losing interest, this is possibly a sign of anxious preoccupied attachment.

Try to look at your own life. Are you the type of person you would want to date? Do you have some financial stability? Do you have your own interests and hobbies? Do you have any negative traits that could be affecting your relationships, such as being controlling, demanding or jealous?

It’s important to be self aware and to be aware of your shortcomings, so you can work on them and bring your best self to the table. Have a think about what your exes said about you. Think about the reasons these guys give for not wanting a relationship with you.

There’s someone out there for everyone. Either you work on changing these traits, or you choose someone who accepts you for who you are. For example if you’re naturally messy, perhaps it’s best to find a guy who doesn’t care about having a messy home.

You have trouble communicating and being yourself

Sometimes when women get a boyfriend or start seeing someone new, they start worrying that the guy will start pulling away or find a reason to end things. This is an understandable fear if you’ve been dumped many times before.

The issue with coming from a place of fear is that you can start trying to contort yourself into the person you think your boyfriend wants. If you’re trying to hold onto a guy, it’s easy to start people-pleasing and not speaking up. You hold everything in for fear of rocking the boat and causing a breakup. You don’t call them out on their behavior and you let them get away with pretty much everything. You don’t enforce your boundaries and you struggle with communicating about the things that upset you.

These things can actually sometimes be detrimental to your relationship. Instead of communicating openly and honestly (in a calm way), you bottle things up, which makes you drift further apart rather than bringing the two of you closer. Men want to feel they can open up to their girlfriend about their fears. They want to feel safe. Likewise, they want you to open up too.

Conversely, some women do the opposite and start acting out. They look for signs that their boyfriend isn’t committed and start to analyze his behaviour, trying to finding hidden meanings in things they do or say. They constantly point out things that their boyfriend is doing wrong or ask where the relationship is headed, which in turn, makes the boyfriend back away, for fear of “drama”. Things like demands, ultimatums and pressure to move in together can soon take a toll on a relationship.

The best thing you can do is learn to communicate effectively. Remember to start sentences with “i feel”. For example, instead of saying “you never have time for me”, you could say something like, “I feel like we don’t spend as much time together as we used to and i’m just wondering if things are ok.” Try to say calm and don’t make accusations or say harsh things about your boyfriend that you’ll later regret.

Bottom line

Don’t give up hope. Just because you haven’t met the right guy yet doesn’t mean that you won’t find one. Take your time to really assess compatibility before rushing head first into a relationship. Ask plenty of questions, observe the person’s behavior and ask yourself, “would I want to be friends with this person if the sex wasn’t there?” At the end of the day, being stuck in a bad relationship is way worse than being single.

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