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Sex Expert Reveals 3-Step Formula That Helped Him Overcome E.D. For GOOD…

Discover Exactly What to Do When You Cant Get Hard–And How to Get Harder, Fuller Erections (At Any Age)…

I have to confess something to you:

While I may be a world-renowned sex expert today… I suffered from a crippling case of E.D. in my 20’s.

Not being able to get it up was one of the worst feelings in the world for me… so I tried almost everything (short of invasive surgery) to treat it.


And what I discovered over time is that no, you don’t need weird drugs or prescriptions to get hard, long-lasting erections.

Instead, you just have to take the right steps.

So today, I’m going to show you how. It’s all right here in this video:

Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…

Today I'm going to speak about a subject that hits very close to home for me. It's one of the most humiliating experiences for any guy:

What do you do when you can't get it up?

This question is actually why I got into studying sexuality in the first place — I went through a period where I had trouble getting it up and I didn't know why.

All I knew is that it was a mental issue.

So if you've ever experienced anything like that before, then the first thing I want you to know is that you're not alone.

I've coached a ton of guys who have this issue. It's actually quite common for younger men.


I think the main reason is because of internet porn. I've seen it happen way more for guys who are born after 1985.

I think that being able to click from naked woman to naked woman messes with your attention span when it comes to sex. It also disconnects you from your body.

So just know that there are a lot of guys out there suffering from this problem, and you're not some strange anomaly if every once in a while (or even a lot of times) you have an issue getting it up.

I'm going to give you 3 things to do if you're in this situation and want to get it up. Beginning with the easiest step first:

1) Breathe Into Your Balls

The first thing to do if you realize you're having trouble getting it up is to breathe deeply into your balls.

A lot of times, when you're stressed because of expectations or you're just not aroused, your body just stops breathing.

Why does this matter?

Breathing helps to maintain your relaxation, and it also keeps your carbon dioxide levels low. High carbon dioxide levels are associated with anxiety, so if you aren't breathing enough, then it can make you anxious.

So breathe deeply — that's the first step.

(Plus, breathing deeply is healthy for you! It's a win-win.)


2) Respect The C**k

The second step is a little more abstract, but it's also more important:

Respect the c**k.

What I mean by this is to respect your own d**k. Like if you're trying to have sex but your d**k clearly doesn't want to have sex, then there's a disconnect between you and your d**k.

It sounds silly, but if you personify your d**k — think of it as your buddy — you're being a d**k to your d**k if you're forcing it to have sex.

So pay attention to your d**k. What does it actually want?

Because if it's not hard, then it very obviously doesn't want to have sex.

Maybe you need to chill out for a minute. Or maybe you're putting too much pressure on yourself.

The thing I'm telling you to do is to pay attention to what your d**k actually wants so you can take the pressure off of you.

Maybe you want to cuddle — so do that! Pay attention to what feels good, and go with it.

So breathe deeply, and respect your c**k. Those are the first two steps.

And here's step three:

3) Call It Out

This last step is the scariest thing for most guys, but I think this is the most effective one in the long run.

Just call it out.

This can seem really scary because at this moment you're probably feeling humiliated — you're worried about what she thinks.

The irony is that that's probably causing the issue in the first place!

Calling it out and letting yourself be seen that way — basically calling out your own shame — will eliminate the shame completely. Anytime you feel shame, you're trying to hide something, and a limp d**k is often a sign of some sort of shame.

Here are a few ways you can do it:


Say, “Listen, for whatever reason, my c**k is not getting hard…”

Or, “Listen, this is not about you. I have this issue every once in a while. I don't know why it happens, and I'm a little bit embarrassed about it, but just know that it's not about you.

Just be honest. And in the name of honesty, I'll tell you that yes, she may judge you for it.

However, in my experience (I've done this a lot of times), she'll understand. And the magic of it is that when you call it out, the problem might actually go away.

If you realize that she's OK with your d**k not working, it takes all of the pressure off and very often, your c**k will get hard.

But if you don't have time for this 3-step solution… it's OK. I get it — it takes time.

I've got something that can help you out even faster:

No Time For the 3 Steps? Try This “Performance-Boosting” Shortcut…

I may be a bit biased, but I truly believe the 3 steps above are the best way to solve E.D. without pills…

Though if you don't have true E.D., and you want a faster way to maximize your performance in bed… or make the most of what you have…

Then I've got a highly effective shortcut for you.

It’s a I learned from one of my mentors, Dave Cummings.

He’s the world’s oldest pornstar… and even though he’s in his freaking 70's… he can still pleasure multiple hot, younger pornstars… sometimes for hours at a time… and he gives all the credit to .

A couple of them are exotic… though most are basic pantry “staples”… you can check this out to see what they are:


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How To Meet Girls Online & Get Them In Bed in as Little as 30 Minutes–Here's How a Regular Guy Did It (& You Can Too)…

Meeting women online, then meeting them in real life, and then taking things to the next level is like a strategy game.

You have to be goal-oriented…

Think a few steps ahead at all times…

And above all, always be willing to cut your losses and move on.

It can be exhausting and exhilarating at the same time. And that's what makes it fun!

No matter what platform you're using–a dating site, a swiping app, or social media–the first thing you need is a goal.

When I say, goal, I don't mean what kind of woman you want to meet. I mean, once you've met her, what are you hoping to accomplish?

Are you looking for a date? A girlfriend? A hook-up?


Knowing where you want to end up before you begin the journey will help make the search considerably more successful.

So take a second, and think it over.

Have a goal in mind?

Today, I'm going to show you how to achieve your goal using a few simple steps. For me, that goal was to get a woman out on a date, and get physical with her, fast.

Here's how I did it:

1) Use Your Profile to Appeal to as Many Women As Possible

First, a little advice about setting up your online dating profile:

As far as your pictures go, use current pics only.

Keep your shirt on, show your eyes, and throw up some pictures of yourself doing some activities you like–ideally, activities that are relatable to a large segment of the female population. Think beaches, water, skiing, fires, boats, bikes, climbing, dining out, and other things like that.

At least hint at your body type, and avoid blurry pictures whenever possible (this implies that you have something to hide).


Save super specific tastes for later. Hint at your hobbies (“game night” every Sunday), but don't reveal too much (Dungeons & Dragons with guy friends, for example).

The same goes for your profile description. You should definitely have one, but don't be so specific that you limit large segments of your target audience. Talk about likes and be very general about what you want.

In my experience, saying you're looking for “a connection” plays pretty well… both in your profile and once you start chatting.

Remember that the vast majority of these women don't know you yet, so you need to be a canvas on which they can paint their own hopes and dreams.

Which brings me to step two…

2) Take Action

Once your profile is in order, you need to start liking, swiping, up-voting, and the like.

Apps and sites are visual because we are visual creatures, so be sure you're working with pics that you actually like.

If we're being a titch cut-throat, you can always compromise a little bit–a little older or less attractive than you'd normally date–to increase your chances of success. But ultimately, that's up to you.

Most likely, you'll meet at least one woman who will cause you to look at her pics two or three times to verify that she's the same person.

This is why I emphasize honesty in images:

No matter what happens once you meet, your online profile remains clean and honest. And that leads to online dating longevity.

3) Pay Attention to Deal-Breakers

The things you need to pay attention to as you're browsing online dating profiles are the deal-breakers:

  • Religion…
  • Politics…
  • Relationship status…
  • Economic status…
  • Pets…
  • And, of course, kids.

We all have our levels of tolerance, but some things are just not going to work–even for one night.


For example, the ones that cause me to swipe left, even if they're gorgeous, are right-wingers, those who are super-religious (it's just me, nothing against religion), and the stay-at-home moms who are single (either they have no independent means of support or they're tied down with kids all the time: lose-lose).

You'll have your own deal-breakers. Listen to your intuition.

No matter what goal you established, this kind of dating is not worth any kind of misery.

As one site points out pretty clearly, there are “plenty of fish” in the sea. ????

4) Send the “Right” Message

Once you match with a woman (unless you're on an app like Bumble, which requires women to send the first message) you need to be prepared to make the first move.

And take it from me–it has to be more than just “Hi.”

Read her profile, look at her profile, and craft an introduction around it. Is she holding a fish, standing on a boat, sitting with her kids? Ask a question, and try to display a subtle sense of humor.

Making her smile is always a good bet. That should be your first task when reaching out. Be enthusiastic and try to make her smile.

Then, you need to ask a lot of questions.

However, these shouldn't be intrusive questions. Rather, ask her the kinds of questions that she'd be interested in telling you about over the text function of a dating site or app.

When did she go to Machu Picchu, for example? How old are her kids? How much does she love sushi (etc.)?

Keep the conversation going–but don't let it go on too long.

At the same time, you need to be a chameleon without lying. Agree whenever you can honestly do so and ask follow-up questions. Demonstrate your interest, and it'll pay off in the long run.


How I Went From First Date to Sex in < 30 Minutes…

During your conversation, if you don't feel it, get out. Move on to the next one.

And that's the other thing:

Always chat with as many women as you can handle at the same time.

Even if you're looking for “the One,” you'll increase your chances of finding her by keeping your options open. Eventually, though, you have to meet.

This is the key point in the negotiation. It's in the texting when you win her trust and often build her attraction.

Eventually, ask her to meet in person for coffee or a drink, but don't do so until you've built the anticipation to a point where you can be pretty certain there will be sparks when you meet..

Last Fall, I'd messaged with a woman for a week or so, and we finally agreed to meet at a spot near her place. We got there, drank a beer, and in less than 30 minutes were told that the place was closing (it was Sunday) and we'd have to leave.

I walked her outside and asked her what she'd like to do. She said she didn't know…

But I knew what I had to do next ;-):

My “Secret” for Super-Fast, Same-Night Sex…

When the cafe manager told us they were closing, I knew the time was now or never:

Was I going to take her to a motel for an afternoon of hot, passionate sex…?

Or would I let her walk away… and likely never see her again?

Now, like I mentioned earlier, I’m not really a “smooth” guy… and I’m no trained dating expert.


I do have one trick up my sleeve, that I learned from a buddy of mine… he used to be a bit of a “player,” but he just married a girl who’s 15 years his junior… and at his bachelor party, he was finally able to share this with me:

It’s called, the

As you probably already know, a lotta the time, a woman needs to feel an emotional connection with you to say “yes” to sex… and this “Tantalizing Touch” can apparently help make that connection… fast (like in seconds).

Anyway, I knew if anything was going to get this girl home with me… it was gonna be this “Tantalizing Touch.” So as we left the cafe, I opened the door, and used it on

To be honest, I wasn’t sure if it worked, because I had sorta run out of things to talk about… so I was just spouting out some B.S. about the weather… but sure enough, a few minutes later, she was all:

“Should we call a motel? Or go back to your place?”

Hell yeah. If it worked for me, chances are it’ll work for you too. Here’s how to use it:


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