This 5-Question Quiz Uncovers the Perfect Girl for You
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Get the Girl YOU Want Without Wasting Another Second…
It's about time we talk about goals.
When it comes to setting goals, Stephen Covey — author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People — says it best:
Always begin with the end in mind.
Now, I’m not here to preach to you about how to become a highly effective person…
Here’s the truth: You DON’T have to be a highly effective person to “achieve the goal” (AKA get the woman) you want.
But you do have to set a goal. And today, I’m going to show you how you can find your ideal woman using a simple 5-question quiz.
Finding a Woman Is Like Finding the Perfect Job…
Getting a woman is sort of like getting a job — you’re out there playing the field, looking for the right “fit.” And when it’s right, she’ll offer the “job” to you.
But if you agree to the wrong job…
You might end up wasting a lot of your own time and money on something (or someONE) that just isn’t right for you.
I’ve seen it happen over and over…
An attractive guy will always be able to meet women. And he’ll always find women who like him. Here’s the thing, though…
That doesn’t mean he’s going to meet the type of women HE likes.
But when he sets a goal…
And has an image of exactly what he wants in mind…
Then a little something I call the “Quantity Phenomenon” occurs.
The “Quantity Phenomenon” That Opens Up Your Eyes to WAY More Women
When you have an image of what you want in your head, then it magically begins appearing all around you — this is what I call the “Quantity Phenomenon.”
And it’s not just “magic.”
Here’s an example:
Let’s say my cousin just got a Tesla car — and he loves it so much he can’t shut up about it.
So every time I’m with him, he seems to find a Tesla to point out to me!
Now, he’s not some kind of car magnet…
And I hadn’t ever really noticed cars like that before…
But once he pointed it out to me, I started seeing Teslas all over the place! And I wasn’t even trying.
The same can be said with women.
Create an image of the specific kind of girl you want, and you’ll start seeing more of her wherever you go.
Know what you want, and you can make her yours.
So how do you get to the bottom of what you want?
Just ask yourself these 5 questions:
1) What do you want out of this?
Do you want a serious relationship?
Or maybe something more casual?
Think about your end game in terms of a relationship — what exact type of relationship are you looking for?
This is important, because the effort required to achieve a long-term relationship is much different than the effort required to get a one night stand.
And beyond that, think about this: What kind of woman are you after?
Picture your ideal woman in your head: Is she…
- Blonde or brunette…
- Long straight hair, or a wavy bob…
- Tall or short…
- Slim or curvy….
Maybe you don’t really care what she looks like, but she better not eat pork or drink hard liquor!
Or maybe you want an old-fashioned woman who likes being dominated and votes Republican…
Whatever it is, get specific.
I’m not here to judge you — I just want to help you get it.
When you’ve got her in your head, move on to question number two:
2) Why do you want her?
So you’ve figured out who you want — but do you understand why you arrived at that specific place?
The purpose of this question is to stop you from setting a goal you don’t actually want.
Let’s say you have $10 to spend — you might think you want a Big Mac and a Coke, but if the food is put in your hands and you see a fried chicken joint across the street…
And then you realize that the chicken is what you really want…
Then you’re sh*t out of luck.
So ask yourself why you’re setting this goal, and when you get an answer, use that answer to inspire you.
This will help to keep you motivated as you start really “going for it.”
3) Why don’t you already have her?
You’re probably thinking:
“Yeah, if I had the answer to this question then I’d already have her — duh!”
I’m with you.
But try and really dig into this answer. If you think you don’t have her because you just shut down around women, ask yourself WHY you shut down.
Is it because talking to women makes you nervous?
Or maybe just the sight of an attractive woman makes your brain go haywire?
That leads you to the fourth question you need to ask…
4) What do you need to do to get her?
Here’s where things start getting real.
So if you’ve determined that the reason you don’t have her is because talking to women makes you nervous, then you need to take the appropriate steps so your nerves aren’t stopping you from getting her.
The most important thing you can do here is establish a step-by-step plan that gets you out of the “rut” that’s stopping you.
And the only person who can recognize that “rut” is YOU.
So while you’re making your plan to get out of it, make sure it’s something you feel is doable.
Don’t make a plan like, “Go out and get 10 phone numbers every single day” if talking to ONE woman is a struggle for you. You’ll just get overwhelmed and beaten down.
Of course, you’re going to have to step out of your comfort zone — this is the price you pay to get what you want.
But you have to compromise with yourself — try talking to one woman every day instead of getting 10 numbers every day.
The key is to take small steps. Speaking of which…
5) What can you do RIGHT NOW to get closer to your goal?
You know the saying, “The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step?”
Yeah, it’s cheesy as hell…but it’s also true.
So when I went through this process myself, I found that the absolute easiest first step is to just change the way you look at women.
No, you can’t just look at her and get her to take her pants off (although wouldn’t that be nice…?)
But looking at her in this one specific way sends the “message” that I’m interested and lets her know that I’m the kind of guy she wants…
And it's so subtle that only she will be able to recognize it! You can even use it on girls in public places or at work and no one else will be the wiser…it really was the cure for any last worries about rejection I had.
Here’s where I learned it:
My Simple Formula to Get the Perfect Girl for YOU…
[Note: This post was updated by Gotham Club on November 22, 2020.]
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